Most men are under the assumption that the fundamental of sex is sexual intercourse itself and that it is the most important motion in pleasing their partner, however in recent studies, women feel that oral sex has been under rated and neglected. In fact, oral sex serves as the basis for a fulfilling and healthy sexual relationship and can also be incorporated into a form of foreplay that will lead to an arousing sexual experience for both partners. This how to guide will explore the do’s and don’ts of performing oral sex on a female partner to aid in full satisfaction.

First, it is important to ensure that your lover is comfortable. This is not a race and should not be rushed or forced. The less comfortable that she is, the less enticing oral sex will become to her so make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Start with a sensual massage with lots of kissing and touching of her most intimate areas. Not only will this encourage the mood and comfort ability but it will also allow you to explore and find the areas of her body that are most appeasing.

Next, once your partner is relaxed and aroused, you may begin to work your way down to her vagina. While it is important to use your tongue during this step, more importantly is where to use your tongue. The clitoris is where your focus should be. Gently pull the lips of the vulva region apart and place your tongue on the clitoris using a gentle flickering motion with your tongue. It is important to keep a slow and steady pace with this motion in order to allow your partner time to orgasm. Also, alternate your areas of concentration, between the clitoris and the opening of the vagina. Light sucking motions of the clitoris are also encouraged. In performing these actions, your partner will enjoy oral sex and will come to orgasm in no time.

Remember to always make your partner comfortable. Touching and kissing are easy ways to encourage the mood. Never force or rush this processes or your partner may become withdrawn. Always be gentle with the intimate areas of the body in order to keep your partner relax with concurrently keeping the mood heightened. Remember to focus on the clitoris to encourage your partner to orgasm.

In following these steps oral sex with become something that both you and your partner will look forward to during sexual encounters.

As with everything else in life, giving the perfect blowjob takes practice. One doesn’t necessarily become an oral superstar overnight (unless of course it’s one hell of a night) Blowjobs are an art form. From the proper ratio of tongue flicking to sucking as well as the depth of your man’s cock in your mouth or throat, giving the perfect blowjob is a harmony of it all. That is where these top blowjob tips cum in. (pun intended)

There is no mathematical formula to giving head. Everyman is different and has different likes and dislikes when it comes to blowjobs. Some like them fast and porn inspired, others slow and sensual. However, most men can agree that having their partner swallow their load is the preferred finish. Swallowing the fruits of your efforts is definitely a top blowjob tip.

Communicate with your partner. Ask him how he likes your performance thus far. Or, if you prefer, allow your man to guide your head giving you physical cues. By allowing your partner to take control of the blowjob, you can learn exactly how to give him head.

Some men enjoy it when their partners introduce an element of heat or cold to the blowjob. From lotions and lubricants designed for giving head, this blowjob tip can add excitement. This extra stimulation can also be added by sucking on an Altoid or cinnamon candy of some sort while giving your man a blowjob.

Last but not least, the most important blowjob tip is to keep your throat relaxed. If you happen to have a gag reflex, it can be easily cured with Chloraseptic throat spray. This will numb your throat allowing you to give your man the deepest and best blowjob yet.

With these top blowjob tips you should be able to blow your lover’s mind, as well as his cock.

So you’ve decided to try anal sex but you don’t know where to start. Well I have some tips and tricks to help make your first time, and every time, enjoyable and pain free.

First, you want to go slow. No matter if its your first time being the bottom or the top, you want to go slow and not rush things. One of the best ways to start your anal fun is to rub your partner’s anus with a finger in small circles. Pairing this with oral sex can cause some intense pleasure. Rubbing the anus helps relax the muscles, allowing penetration.

Once your partner is relaxed enough you can insert your finger. You will need to use a water based lube for this, my favorite is Anal Lube. Once you are lubed, you can insert your finger. Again, take it slow, starting with one finger and work your way up if you want. After plenty of touching and playing, your partner should be ready for anal sex.

The best position for beginners is to lay on your side with the receiver infront of the giver (spooning). It may be wise for the receiver to be in control at first, gentlely easing there way onto the penis.

Remember that you need lube for this, so don’t forget to smear it on. The rectum doesn’t provide lubrication so you need plenty of it to fully enjoy anal sex. Even with plenty of foreplay, you still need to take your time with your initial penetration. The rectum isn’t like the vagina and could get damaged if you don’t give it time to adjust to sex. However, once it has adjusted, anal sex can be very, very satisfying. You can even orgasm from anal stimulation by itself.