Having sex or making love is the greatest experience two people can enjoy together. There is many different positions and styles you can enjoy. You can enjoy warm massages and soft kisses all over your body or you may like a slap on your bare ass that gets the blood rushing.

Soft sex can include a full body massage with lots of oils. Sexy sleek lingerie may get your heart beating. Soft kisses and a little licking in those special sensitive spots on your body. This is a real easy going form of sex that might begin with a kiss before a candle light dinner. Ease on over to the loveseat for a foot massage or a little kissing and caressing. Then off to the bedroom or stay right there for a little strip tease and a little romantic love making. If this is your passion and you both enjoy it go for it. If you want a little more excitement, how about a little rough sex.

Rough sex might include a bruise or two, a couple of scratches, and maybe a tooth mark here and there. A little pain can make your body so sensitive you just shudder when you are touched. You can use different props in this form of sex including whips, chains and handcuffs. The lingerie can have a rougher look to it as well if you wear any at all. A man might start by slapping his lover hard on the ass or grabbing it very firmly. A woman could sink her fingernails into her mates back or ass as she bites his nipple. She can also grab and be a little hard on that joystick she wants so bad. Throw in a few more sex positions and you can have your blood racing.

For the best of both worlds play rough and then soft. Repeat this all night long and it can be the ultimate experience. Once in a while a change is good for your relationship. It doesn’t hurt to try new things now and then, it can keep your relationship healthy. You might find that a little soft caressing turns you on or you might like the hot feeling of that slap on your ass as you have your nails dug into your mates backside. There is no right or wrong in the bedroom if every participant is enjoying themselves.