Ladies, would you like to know what a man thinks when it comes to sex and emotionally? Sometimes guys can be tricky to understand, but let’s look at some things that men always want.

One thing all men like is to feel like he has a “game”. Even at the age of 60 or over, a man seriously likes to think he has a shot with that 20-year old waitress. Why? Because rejection stings, badly. Emotionally stable or not, if someone gets struck down enough, they’re not going to feel quite as worthy as they should. Let me tell you, guys can be very insecure.

Another thing a man likes is the feeling he’s accepted, faults and all. Men often have a lot of pressure on them. Think about it. They’re always expected to have a job, take an unlimited number of rejections when it comes to dating, drive a great car, and lift very heavy things. If you think it’s easy, try lifting a 300 lb. sofa up a flight of stairs. It’s no picnic. Men though are usually more direct in how they feel. An ideal spouse or girlfriend is also your friend. Think about who he spends the most time with? His friends. So be one of them. That doesn’t mean smoke cigars and fart, but let him come to you if you need him. Also don’t be afraid to admit if you’re wrong. There’s an old joke “I finally met Ms. Right. I had no idea her middle name was ‘Always’.”. This joke has some bastion of truth to it because often times a woman never admits she’s wrong.

As for sexual activity, guys generally like the chase sometimes more than the conquest, but here are some suggestions for spicing up your sex life.

First of all is open communication. Guys are usually more direct in what they want you to do. Listen to them, even if some of the ideas are far fetched.

Second — Mix it up some. Bringing toys can be fun. Variety isn’t just the spice of life, it also is the spice of the bedroom. Most guys like girls to take a little initative too. If you always make him wear protection, one time knock it out of his hand when he reaches for it.

There are some ideas that a man never likes to have rejected flat out. As absurd as it sounds, leave the door open for a possible threesome, but tell him in no uncertain terms that you pick the girl, if you know one that would be willing to try it. And ONLY save these for very special occasions. In reality, when it comes to really crazy ideas like threesomes, most guys want the experience one time to see how much fun it can be to have two girls into him.

The reason why most guys stray is that they don’t feel they are getting what they want at home. Really, you can keep a man happy and from straying if you know how to take care of him.